Satinder S. Panesar

Inner Self - I should not say anything to anybody and be quite. Outer Self - If i dont say anything, how will people understand? Inner Self - I dont need anyone else, to be Happy. Outer Self - I need to socialize more. Inner Self - I'm still a learner. Outer Self - I have vast exp. to share, I need people. Inner Self - Whatever is happening around, I dont have any control over. Outer Self - I'm controlling my life by making decisions. Inner Self - Your single act can effect many lives, so just be a watcher. Outer Self - Don't be a watcher, but rather stand up and change the way people think. Inner Self - I should not Hurt people Outer Self - Who care about the people?

We all are busy in building / thinking about our Future. Well, of course we should be, after all we dont want to live a miserable life. Right? But did you ever rewind the reel of your life? If not, take some time out and see what all things had happened in your life so far. When you do, you will be amazed to see the things you did. This headline - Am part of all that I have met sounds pretty cool. But the truth is it is very difficult to live with that, just for a simple reason that in life there are many ups and downs. For ups we want to be a part of but for downs we dont want to accept, how can i be wrong and can commit mistake. Strange thing is nobody wants to accept that they can do any wrong. I think the problem is, we want to be Perfect, start thinking we know everything and that nobody can do better than us. But we forget one thing that at times things are not in our hand. Believe me, when you accept that you are not Perfect , things become easy and you become a better ...

Ever wondered what you are doing or where you are at present, why only you are there? And not anybody else? Isnt it a Miracle? Some might say it's coz of their dedication or Luck. I will say Neither, coz: There are Hundred and Thousands of people doing the same thing and are more dedicated or focused than you, but they are not there where you are, right? Luck - again 2 types of luck Good Luck - Anything that goes in our favour, we call it as Good Luck. Bad Luck - Anything that goes against our favour, we call it as Bad Luck What is Favour? Anything that boost our EGO is a favour. Sometime its your's and sometime its someone else's. So that means your Bad luck is a Good Luck for someone else. I dont believe there is anything called as "Luck" for a simple reason that nothing in this world is Bad . Just coz you dont like some person or thing doesn't make that person/thing Bad. I believe it's Miracle that is happening all around us and we dont h...

I always wonder how people create perception by looking at only one side. How our society impose things upon us, even when they themselves do not know the other side of the story, or perhaps they dont want to know. We often say, every coin has 2 sides then how come all these things/stories have only 1 end, which have been shown to us. Is it that the other end is more painful? Or is it that it will reveal the true color of their " Heroes "? I would like to give few examples: 1) Every Year, we burn the effigies of Ravan, Meghnath & Kumbkaran. Reason is, coz Ravan kidnap Sita, wife of Ram. But we often forget that it was Ram & his Brother who first humiliated Ravan's sister. All she had asked Ram was to marry her. Well, I dont see any wrong in that, not sure how many of you will see this as a wrong thing. I mean she had just " Asked " him to marry her. According to one south indian scripture Sita was ugly and was not beautiful, whereas Ravan's ...

Well, this question has been asked by everyone and from the time, human race came into existence. My personal exp. is, all they want is - Love . As I have mentioned in one of my previous post , how all she could ask was Love . Though she could have asked any thing, but her deep inner desire was of " Love ". Some say - Women want security . My ans to that is, if that's the thing they want, then there would not have been many females who left their luxurious life and are staying with their less rich (as compare to their families) partners. Some say - in today's world, they want career/ Identity of their own . Am sure, many of us must have seen females leaving their career after marriage, so again if career would have been the thing, they wont be leaving it - right? Indian history is filled with the stories how women has fought with destiny to bring back their loved ones. How they have left their everything to be with the one whom they love. In the end I will say...

Memories play very important role in our life. They can make you feel happy, sad, can bring smile on your face and can also bring tears in your eyes. On one side, You can wait entire life just to spend 1 moment with that someone special and on the other side, 1 moment spend with some person and you dont want to see that person again in your entire life. Today, am narrating how i feel when some memories spend with that special person, came back to me. There was a time when we both use to go there. Then comes a time, when you had started going alone, without knowing the reason why i had stopped going there. Reason was, I soo much want you and wanted you to be with me. This time when i was crossing that place my heart start pounding, something inside start saying - Maybe you are there . Though that place was overcrowded, my eyes start searching, searching the glimpse of you. Your Smile! All those memories came to me, how i use to protect you from the crowd, how i use to hold your ...

Last night a friend called up saying she want to discuss something. I went to her place and she was crying. After sometime, i asked her what happened? She said - her love story is now ended completely. I asked her, to tell me the complete thing to which she said, they had a bad fight and now its all over . I feel very happy that finally its over but still to make sure, i asked her - Is this story finally over or is it that after some days you will start cribbing again about this guy? To this she said, No No, this time it's completely over. Somehow i still dont believe her, as this is almost 100 time in the last few months that she said that her love story is over. This guy treats her very bad, even say bad words which otherwise you dont say it. Still this girl does not listen or want to move on but want to stick with the same guy. Strange thing is - many girls fall in love with those people who are either already engaged/married or who dont treat them nicely. I happen to ask ...

Yesterday Air India (AI) staff strike was called off and this time NOT due to their peer pressure but by firm stand of the Govt. They did not bend to the demands of AI staff. Though I really like the attitude of the Govt. as this is no way to get your demands met. But having said that, doesnt mean that Govt. should start exploiting the labour or dont care/listen to them. Ofcourse, there must be strict laws for such exploitation but going on strikes are NO option either For 2 days, many travelers suffer due to the Strike from AI staff. People had booked their tickets couple of days in advance,so that means they have no idea about this last minute strike. Apart from losing money, they have also lost their precious time. Some might have important issues to be resolved, but this strike left them stranded at the airport . Just 2 days of Strike costs Govt. 12 Crores. This money is very important as last year only, Govt. has given 10,000 Crore to AI for its survival . From where do G...

Those who still believe that it's the guys who makes the first move needs to think again. Now girls dont want to wait for Guys to make the first move, instead if they are interested in some guy they take the shot. I'm narrating 2 Real life incidents which happen to me in the recent past. 1) Last week, I went to Doolally (Pune's first brewhouse) as friends had already gone there and were calling. Met friends and getting to know friends of the friends. There was this girl who was drooling over a foreigner. After sometime, she started saying that she wanna get laid by this foreigner. Everyone was shocked, but that didnt stop her from going ahead. 2) Yest. I went to Pyramids lawns (Riverview) for Live music concert. Music was nice and was enjoying. They stopped the concert for a refreshment break. I went to Food stall, put few items (am not gonna disclose, what & how much) on my plate. All of a sudden 1 girl came and start talking to me that she is single, & she l...