Satinder S. Panesar

Like a new kid on the block, I'm excited to write First post of this new Decade and ofcourse this New Year. We all celebrate New Year parties, we all make New Year resolutions but that's different thing we dont " Keep " them apart from few exceptions. Yest. i was sitting with my brother and my cousin and we were discussing how are things at home ..etc. And there came a surprising and shocking news when my brother said - he is responsible for everything that happened in his life, be it good or bad. For me, this was like Wow! and shocking as well coz earlier he always blame " Others " for the things that happened in his life. For the first time, he said this - he is responsible for whatever had happened in his life. Today morning when i was contemplating that, came across that in every person's life there are 3 stages. 1) When you blame others: This is when you are young and whenever things don't go your way, instead of taking the responsibility ...

Last night a friend called up saying she want to discuss something. I went to her place and she was crying. After sometime, i asked her what happened? She said - her love story is now ended completely. I asked her, to tell me the complete thing to which she said, they had a bad fight and now its all over . I feel very happy that finally its over but still to make sure, i asked her - Is this story finally over or is it that after some days you will start cribbing again about this guy? To this she said, No No, this time it's completely over. Somehow i still dont believe her, as this is almost 100 time in the last few months that she said that her love story is over. This guy treats her very bad, even say bad words which otherwise you dont say it. Still this girl does not listen or want to move on but want to stick with the same guy. Strange thing is - many girls fall in love with those people who are either already engaged/married or who dont treat them nicely. I happen to ask ...

When I first came to Pune from Punjab, I was like wow, i have come to the Education city ( Oxford of the East ) of India. My thoughts when I came to Pune was, that condition of women here will be much better as compared to the other cities. But with the passage i realized this is NOT the case. Infact even worse than other cities. If you have read my previous posts you will know how much I respect women. At my place in Punjab, if something happens to a Girl/Female, we catch the culprit and don't blame the Girl coz she is the victim. But here (read Pune) whenever something happen, people put ALL the blame on the Girl/Female. I remember few years back there was a rape in Symbiosis and Administration put all the blame on the Girl saying her dressing was NOT proper. They did not try to catch the culprit and put him behind bars but instead they force the dress code in the college. Every now and then, Girls are Molested, Raped, Beaten up but then again, ALL the blame is on the Gir...

On Saturday evening, at around 7:15 PM, when i was coming from Delhi to Pune, I came to know that there is a Bomb Blast in Koregaon Park, Pune . A place which I consider the most safest place in Pune had witnessed the terror attack. Next Day, i bought the newspaper and it was written that cause for the blast is Bursting of LPG cylinder and by the time i reached Pune i.e. around 11:30PM, it was confirmed that it was a terrorist attack. I also came to know that people burn the posters of Bal Thackeray coz the state govt has said that it was due to his threat of stopping the screening of the movie i.e. " My Name is Khan " that the state govt had to deploy the police on the theaters, so that the screening of the movie goes smooth. I'm wondering what kind of Govt is this? For this govt, entertainment is a bigger issue than the lives of innocent people? When they already had the intelligence report that there are possible terror attacks in Pune then why did they remov...